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Learning How to Eat with My Hands

Writer: Tayllor JohnsonTayllor Johnson


I will never forget the first time I truly ate with my hands.

I was a first-year student staying with a new friend from college and her family in New York. Her cousin presented us with fish and couscous on a platter to share. I’d been there a few days and saw her family share a meal, so I thought it was pretty straightforward. 🥘


However, after a few bites, her cousin returned and asked my friend in Fulani if I didn’t like the food. My friend translated, and I said, "Yes, of course I do!" My friend told me it didn't look like it because my bites were so small. Her cousin then sat next to me and, with her hands, slowly showed me how to gather a bite with her fingers. Her hands were so sure of themselves, grabbing all the flavors without hesitation. There was a technique to it, a form to your hands that allows you to fit all the food you want in one bite.  After she gathered the bite in front of me, she smiled as if to say: that is how you eat. 🥘


It was more than just a lesson on eating with my hands. It was a lesson in abundance in family and community as we all ate from the same plate and filled ourselves up. I will never forget it. It was such a loving act to teach me something that I know my ancestors did without a problem. What else do my ancestors want to teach me? I’m so grateful for who I am and where I come from. I love our people. 🖤


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